 |
"Diary of My Divorce From a Depressed Stoner": New Book Provides Support for the Non-Depressed Spouse
Long Beach, Calif. (PRWEB) April 7, 2008 ?- The new book 'Diary Of My Divorce From a Depressed Stoner' by author Alex Ford provides a heartfelt memoir of how one woman survived the breakdown of her marriage to a man who suffers from severe depression and an addiction to marijuana. Her journal reveals how she made the difficult choice to leave a man she loved but could not save. She turns 40 and asks herself one question - is this the person she wants to spend the next 40 years of her life with? When the kids are gone and the baton pass stops and they actually have to spend time together? And sadly enough, the answer was no.
Excerpt from Book:
* Unsent letter to Adrian: "So here we are mid-divorce. Here?s my question: What came first, the pot smoking or the detachment? I will claim that your 'excessive' pot smoking throughout the years caused me to detach and pursue things independently because I felt I lacked a partner. You will claim my detachment encouraged your pot smoking and drinking. And so it goes round and round. The bottom line is about three years ago we detached."
Over the course of the year, following her decision to part ways, she experiences lows when dealing with the emotions of extracting from an already depressed man, financial concerns, and self-doubt about her decision. She experiences highs in the way of stronger family ties, new friendships, several romances, an exciting career, meaningful coincidences, a newfound spirituality, and a deep sense of commitment to living life fully and taking charge of her destiny.
Excerpts from Book:
* My Mother: "How do I tell my mother that I am making this decision to end a marriage partly based on a need to pursue a healthier life, but also because I do not want to repeat the mistake that she made ? staying in a loveless relationship with an alcoholic because she did not have the confidence to break out."
* Man, this is the hard part: "...the rosy outlook I projected for this divorce is not so rosy at the moment. I am dealing with a man who is immobilized by grief one minute and then aggressively confrontational the next. He is eager to see me regret my decision by making it as painful for me as possible. Our whole marriage has been like a crazy roller coaster.... let me off! I forget what is like not to have this daily drama in my life. Right now I am in the tunnel and cannot see the light at the end."
This book is not just for divorcees, but any person going through an intimate-relationship breakup, especially one with someone who suffers from depression or substance abuse. This book will provide support and optimism that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Excerpts from Book:
* Match.com: "So tonight, a little frustrated at my ability to meet a quality man, I decide to venture into an arena that I have been very skeptical of and almost judgmental about. But we will give it a try: Match.com."
* The One That Sparked My Interest: "You have, without a doubt the most intriguing profile I have ever seen on Match. Can it really be that you possess the smarts, sensitivity, beauty, and exceptional groundedness suggested in your description? Your list of wants for a partner is a bit daunting, but I'm up for the challenge. In fact, I could see aspects of myself in all the qualities you are seeking. No doubt you have a flood of admirers, but I am certain that you won't find anyone more willing or able to engage both your physical and intellectual self (even that horny professor). Daniel."
* Wow: "Wow, I have finally met him? the mystery man I described about a year ago."
Ford?s story is uplifting and provides humor and encouragement, giving the reader hope that they will get through the tunnel and the sun will be shining on the other side.
Alex Ford (pen name) 41, has chosen to remain anonymous because it was not her intent to write a "tell-all" book or hurt anyone in writing this story. Her intent was to hopefully provide comfort, encouragement and share some lessons learned through a difficult process that millions of men and women go through.
For more information or to purchase the book, please visit http://www.lulu.com/content/2175376.
Contact:
Alex Ford (Pen Name)
E-Mail: reredorf @ yahoo.com
To Purchase the Book: http://www.lulu.com/content/2175376
To Read Blog: http://diaryofdivorce.wordpress.com/
To Listen to IMIX ? Diary of my Divorce to a Depressed Stoner Playlist:
http://phobos.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewIMix?id=278076063
###
This press release has been reprinted from PRWEB per the terms and conditions of the copyright notice.
|
 |
Thinking About Divorce Or Ending Your Relationship? What Do You Do First? Do You Know Your Options?
What is a mediator? It is a neutral person. They do not take sides and they are not there to be your marriage therapist. Their goal is to assist you by removing the drama and tension often associated with a long drawn out court battle. In fact, they are not even allowed to give you legal advice. The mediator begins, by meeting each party separately. You fill out questions and provide financial information. In addition, you list concerns over custody and parenting issues.
Facing Debt After Your Divorce? A Personal Debt Consolidation Loan Relieves The Financial Pressure
If your divorce has caused you real financial pain as well as personal heartache, a personal debt consolidation loan could provide you with much needed relief. No one gets married with divorce in mind and the disappointment and hurt, which results from a failed marriage, is enough to deal with without also coping with unexpectedly high debt. Divorce can knock us off our feet financially for a long time unless we take steps to minimize its impact.
The Impact of Divorce on Families
As a licensed mental health professional, I work with many individuals, couples, and families who are affected by divorce. I see the devastating effects that breakups can have and am dedicated to helping people develop the skills to cope with experiences like divorce.
Free Divorce Records 1991 July
Divorce Records: There are specialized portals that can provide access to a wide range of public records all in one site. If you are dating someone or worried about the person your child just brought home to meet you, a search through courthouse divorce records can help you rest easier. With a simple search through a few courthouse divorce records you can find out if the person your daughter brought home has a criminal or arrest divorce record. You can even find out if they were paroled and the terms of their parole. . Some divorce records may also be withheld or edited to ensure the safety of witnesses and victims involved in the crime.
Modern Day 'Fairy Godmother' Empowers Single Women to Rebuild Their Lives After Divorce
Divorce expert, Lorena Bathey, author of "Happy Beginnings: How to Become Your Own Fairy Godmother," helps divorced women learn how to put themselves first, deal with ex-husbands, turn their lives around, and become unstoppable.
Author & Radio Host Tim Kellis Charges Psychologists Who Write Relationship Books Are Helping to Spawn a Divorce Industry
If you're one of the many psychologists churning out relationships books today, you might want to steer clear of marriage maestro Tim Kellis. Author & radio host Tim Kellis charges Psychologists who write relationship books are helping to spawn a divorce industry.
New Online Auction eDivvyup Offers Alternative to Infighting After Death, Divorce
eDivvyup is a revolutionary new website built on an online auction platform that is designed specifically for the equitable distribution of personal property. eDivvyup enables the family to list all personal property on their own personal auction page, elect an Estate Manager who will invite family members to participate in the auction and then begin the bidding process. eDivvyup users can relieve the stress and emotional turmoil normally associated with dividing up the personal property of a beloved family member.
Recovering Emotionally from a Nasty Divorce
How Does One Maintain Sanity During Life's Transitions Such as Divorce, Death, Blended Family and Career Changes? New Audio Book Provides the Ans
Newly released audiobook offers listeners practical tips and proven strategies for staying on top when life is tough. The nine-CD audiobook is geared towards listeners of all ages as they pass through transitions in their family and career.
Does Living In A Loveless Marriage Necessarily Mean That You Should Get A Divorce?
Being in a loveless marriage is a frustrating predicament, but it may not necessarily mean that a divorce is eminent. Solving the quandary of a loveless marriage requires self-reflection to assess the situation, courage to try to create a team effort for the best decision with your spouse, and gumption to face the reality that a divorce may be the best solution for the loveless marriage.
How to Recover From Divorce
As a licensed mental health professional, I work with many individuals, couples, and families who are affected by divorce. I have developed this list of survival strategies for people who are experiencing divorce.
Divorce Rate Plummets As More Americans Shack Up Instead of Getting Married
More Americans are taking "til death do us part" seriously. According to the recently released Rutgers University National Marriage Project the number of divorces is declining.
Potty Training After a Divorce or Separation
Many parents share custody of their children, which presents a unique problem when it comes to potty training. It's best to discuss potty training and agree on a strategy before you start.
Kim B. Miller States the Truth on Revenge Parenting, Using Her Own Divorce as an Example With Her Book How To Love Your Kids More Than You Hate That M
How to Love Your Kids More Than You Hate That Man is a detailed and personal look at parenting and self evaluation.
Divorce & Business The Hidden Impact on Employers; Custody Calculations Panel Speaker at The Women & Business Expo
There are few that understand the full impact of family law on employers, employees and business. Issues such as production errors, inability to focus, missed deadlines, unscheduled vacation days, sick time and workman's compensation issues when an employee divorces. All issues which can impact an employers profit and loss statement. Employers also face issues such as hostile work environment, claims of retaliation, sexual harrassment as well as civil and criminal liabilities due to the actions of their employees when they divorce. But now a new service can help employers with those issues. Similiar to vision and dental packages for employees, employers will now be able to provide a divorce benefit.
|
